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    "When you cannot make pure goods and full weight, go to something that is honest, even if it is breaking stone." James Gamble

    "Talk happiness. The world is sad enough without your woe." Orison Sweet Marden

    "You cannot run away from a weakness. You must sometimes fight it out or perish; and if it be so, why not now, and where you stand?" Robert Louis Stevenson

    "There is little that can withstand a man who can conquer himself." Louis XIV

    "Every man should make up his mind that if he expects to succeed, he must give an honest return for the other man's dollar." E. H. Harriman

    "Time stays long enough for anyone who will use it." Leonardo

    "Behind an able man there are always other able men." Chinese Proverb
     
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    Verse of the Day
    Whoever believes in the Son has eternal life, but whoever rejects the Son will not see life, for God’s wrath remains on them.
    John 3:36 NIV
     
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    "We are born for co-operation, as are the feet, the hands, the eyelids and the upper and lower jaws." Marcus Aurelius

    "He who has injured thee was either stronger or weaker than thee. If weaker, spare him; if stronger, spare thyself." Seneca

    "Fear is an acid which is pumped into one's atmosphere. It causes mental, moral and spiritual asphyxiation, and sometimes death; death to energy and all growth." Horace Fletcher

    "Activity back of a very small idea will produce more than inactivity and the planning of genius." James A. Worsham

    Be not afraid of life. Believe that life is worth living, and your belief will help create the fact. William James

    "The successful people are the ones who can think up stuff for the rest of the world to keep busy at." Don Marquis

    "Confidence is a plant of slow growth in an aged bosom." William Pitt
     
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    Verse of the Day
    For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith and are saved.
    Romans 10:10
     
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    Teach your kids to choose friends carefully
    By Pastor Mark Jeske

    Parents like to think that their children’s growth and education come primarily from their teachers at school. Would that ’twere so. Our kids’ education is derived to an astonishing extent from their peers, from the people they hang out with. Each year you will have less and less influence on the people they choose as their friends. Each year you will be less and less aware of the conversations and culture that they are part of.

    It is important that you have the “friends” talk with them early in life. “Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm” (Proverbs 13:20). Some young people despise education. They can become a boat anchor to your kids. Some despise their parents or truth telling or the law or the Christian faith. They take foolish risks; they love danger; they breathe rebellion. There have always been plenty of people like that—the book of Proverbs calls them “fools.”

    Try to create a culture in your home where your kids are comfortable bringing their friends over (so that you can have a look at them and listen to them talk). Don’t let your kids be evasive or mumbly about who they’re hanging out with or where they are going. Show an interest. Ask questions. Watch for behavioral changes. Stop grumbling about being their personal taxi driver and welcome those times when you’re in the car with them.

    Make them take out their earbuds and actually talk with you.
     
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    "We cannot all be masters." Shakespeare

    "Morale is faith in the man at the top." Albert S. Johnstone

    "No one grows old by living -- only be losing interest in living." Marie Ray

    "Successful salesmanship is 90% preparation and 10% presentation." Bertrand R. Canfield

    "In making living today, many no longer leave room for life." Joseph Sizoo, D.D.

    He who sacrifices his conscience to ambition burns a picture to obtain the ashes.
    Chinese Proverb

    "The glow of one warm thought is to me worth more than money." Thomas Jefferson
     
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    Verse of the Day
    Now the Lord is the Spirit, and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom.
    2 Corinthians 3:17 NIV
     
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    "Life is too short to be little." Disraeli

    "The man who trusts men will make fewer mistakes than he who distrusts them." Cavour

    "There is one rule for industrialists and that is: Make the best quality of goods possible at the lowest cost possible, paying the highest wages possible." Henry Ford


    A leaf on a tree or a rose in a vase.
    I’ve never seen God
    I've never seen God, but I know how I feel.
    It's people like you who make Him so real.
    It seems that I pass Him so often each day,
    in the faces of people I meet on the way.

    He's the stars in the heavens, a smile on some face,
    a leaf on a tree or a rose in a vase.
    He's winter and autumn and summer and spring,
    ...in short, God is every real, wonderful thing.
    I wish I might meet Him more often than I do,
    I would if there were more people like you.

    He's winter and autumn and summer and spring,
    ...in short, God is every real, wonderful thing.
    I wish I might meet Him more often than I do,
    I would if there were more people like you.

    He's the stars in the heavens, a smile on some face,
    a leaf on a tree or a rose in a vase.
    He's winter and autumn and summer and spring,
    ...in short, God is every real, wonderful thing
    I wish I might meet Him more often than I do,
    I would if there were more people like you.
     
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    Verse of the Day
    Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.”
    John 8:32 NIV
     
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    (The letter below is from the humor page of Modern Maturity magazine, written by EILEEN HERBERT JORDAN.)

    TUNED IN, TURNED OFF

    I have never known a cross-dresser. I have never, as a fond wife, helped a husband pick out a wardrobe for it or, as a less-enlightened one, found piles of satin teddies in a corner of the master closet.

    There is so much I have never done, never known, never imagined. Perhaps I have lived a life of numbing dullness. I have never, for example, seduced my husband's best friend; I have never seduced my best friend's husband. I have never dated one of my daughter's boyfriends - nor have I ever craved one. I've been daunted by my children from time to time as every mother has, but I've never tried to sell them to anybody (for the price of a motorcycle, in one case). I've never tried prostitution as a part-time job to help pay for the new patio or the vacation in the Caribbean.

    The fact is, I must never have lived in the same neighborhood as the people who appear regularly on daytime television talk shows. On Sassy, Donahue, Oprah, Geraldo, they are all there, chatting away, about worlds I never knew. I imagine two couples waving merrily across the fence at each other and saying, "Hi! Let's get together in the sauna tonight and swap mates!" Nobody like that ever lived next door to me.

    As for the visiting repairmen; the plumbers, the electricians, the gardeners; who arrive, strip to the waist and come on strong; If mine fixed the washing machine, repaired the faulty wiring, controlled the crabgrass and remained fully clothed while doing so, I asked no more of them. Possible that is because one trend escaped me entirely; doing one's housework in the nude.

    I will not even go into the long, sad paths followed by so many people who come and sit in guest chairs on talk shows; and talk and talk and talk. The women who've had batteries of operations to become men; the men who've become women (including the one who posed for Playboy to prove it). The mothers who aren't sure whose children they've borne; the children having children.

    There are, almost always, experts present on these programs. They are psychiatrists, psychologists, therapists, clergymen, doctors and/or writers. The latter, no matter what other professions they claim, seem to have spent most of their time amassing aberrations, often at the expense of syntax. Now they are there to sell books. They are all supposed to be there to help. Heaven knows, the people being interviewed could use it. But I'll bet a later visit with the victims would find them abandoned by their counselors, who have long since moved on to, shall we say, greener fields. Maybe weaving a message of hope around a television commercial inherently lacks something.

    So they talk (having fought, I'm told, to get on) - but why do we listen? There is, they say, a three-to-five-month wait to get into the audience for Donahue, to name just one. We've always understood that misery loves company; but do many of us understand this kind of misery? I realize that college students do not major in English anymore, they major in Communications; perhaps Thou shalt not fail to communicate is the Eleventh Commandment. But are these people communicating? Not with me, they're not.

    As a child I was never allowed to attend the freak show that came to town with the circus. It is not polite to stare at people, my mother said. It is not nice to single people out because they may be different from you. When did that philosophy disappear? When did we turn into a nation of Peeping Toms? Did it happen a long time ago when no one was - how shall we put it - looking? And I wonder what it's doing to us, too. I wonder that a lot.

    Once when I owned two cats someone recommended a wonderful bargain in cat food; the catch was, you had to buy at least a case of it. In a wild moment of penny-pinching I bought two cases - one for each cat. By the time I had neatly stacked the cans on my kitchen shelves there was no room for anything else. A search for the coffee or the soup or the cereal invariably turned up another shelf of cat food. That's the way I feel about my head these days. It is filling so fast with the disconnected, the despairing and the downright weird that I must do something.

    And I know what. I can't push the Off buttons all over the country, but I sure can push mine. I have to. It's getting so I have no room for sunsets.
     
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    Great read and so true.
    I just read an article the other day, they have written a new version on the BIBLE to suit their needs called the "Queen James" version, complete with a rainbow cross on the front.
    Perversion at the worst...
     
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    Verse of the Day
    Sin is not ended by multiplying words, but the prudent hold their tongues.
    Proverbs 10:19 NIV
     
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    Make a plan
    By Pastor Matt Ewart

    Do you wish you were more generous? Sure you do—who doesn’t? How to become more generous is the question.

    You might think that more money would make you more generous. That sounds good at first, but between the lines you are actually blaming God for your lack of generosity: until he gives you more money, you can’t be generous.

    Since blaming God never seems to end well, let’s think through this a different way. God’s greatest act of generosity did not require money. It required a plan and a sacrifice. Might the model of generosity he wants you to follow be similar?

    Make a plan. Throw away the list of everything God hasn’t given you and replace it with an inventory of what he has given you. Then the first thing you do is decide how much to give back to him through an offering.

    So how much should you give? That’s a fair question, but there’s actually a better one that you can ask. It might scare you, but it goes like this: How much money do you have to sacrifice before you are forced to trust God with what’s left?

    “Each of you should give what you have decided in your heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver” (2 Corinthians 9:7).

    Having a plan insulates you from giving reluctantly or out of compulsion. A plan that includes sacrificial giving moves you to trust in God every day. Generous people don’t make more money. They make a plan.
     
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    The following is copied from an article called: "Right Values: Light in an age of Confusion," by Jerold Aust, written in The Good News Magazine, November/December 1996 issue.

    They'll probably never again invite Joe Wright, pastor of a church in Wichita, Kansas, to open a session of the Kansas Legislature with prayer. Mr. Wright feels strongly about issues of right and wrong and isn't shy about expressing himself in no uncertain terms. After his recent invocation a few of the legislators took loud exception to his prayer. "It was gross, divisive, sanctimonious, overbearing," one said. Others called it "blasphemous and ignorant." What had this minister said that so stirred the wrath of these state representatives? Here is that prayer, as widely quoted in the print and electronic news media:

    "Heavenly Father, we come before You today to ask your forgiveness and to seek Your direction and guidance. We know Your Word says woe to those who call evil good, but that's exactly what we have done. We've lost our spiritual equilibrium and inverted our values.

    "We confess that we have ridiculed the absolute truth of Your Word in the name of moral pluralism. We have worshipped other gods and called it multiculturalism.

    "We have endorsed perversion and called it an alternative lifestyle. We have exploited the poor and called it a lottery. We have neglected the needy and called it self-preservation. We have rewarded laziness and called it welfare.

    "In the name of choice we have killed our unborn. In the name of right to life we have killed abortionists.

    "We have neglected to discipline our children and called it building esteem. We have abused power and called it political savvy. We have coveted our neighbor's possessions and called it taxes. We have polluted the air with profanity and pornography and called it freedom of expression. We have ridiculed the time-honored values of our forefathers and called it enlightenment.

    "Search us, O God, and know our hearts today. Try us and show us any wickedness in us. Cleanse us from every sin, and set us free. Guide and bless these men and women who have been sent here by the people of Kansas and who have been ordained by You to govern this great state. Grant them Your wisdom to rule, and may their decisions direct us to the center of Your will. I ask it in the name of your Son, the living Savior, Jesus Christ, Amen."
     
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    As a prisoner for the Lord, then, I urge you to live a life worthy of the calling you have received.
    Ephesians 4:1 NIV
     
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    “Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God’s grace in its various forms.”
    -1 Peter 4:10
    http://www.if714.org/?p=26258
     
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    Values are like a lighthouse. They send out a constant message of reassurance and warning: As you make your way through the murkiness and confusion of life, keep values in view, or risk disaster. A lighthouse marks a point from which ships can judge their positions to maintain their safety and security. It serves as a consistent, unswerving guide.

    Values are like that. They are like beacons, allowing people to navigate safely the ocean of life. Where in the world are we relative to traditional Christian values? Let's take a look: Two decades ago television network situation comedies were talking about people's posteriors; now they show them.

    Today a woman can contract with a physician to terminate her unborn child, yet she can be charged with child abuse if she takes drugs while pregnant. In some states, a child cannot legally be given an aspirin without parental permission, yet a pregnant girl can undergo an abortion without informing her parents!


    The hummingbird is one of the few birds that have legs, but cannot walk! They also are the only ones with a reverse gear. Incidentally, the loon is another bird that cannot walk.

    The man who cannot wonder is like a pair of eyeglasses behind which there is no eye.

    The farther backward you can look, the farther forward you are likely to see. Winston Churchill
     
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    So very true.
     
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    Verse of the Day
    Dear friend, do not imitate what is evil but what is good. Anyone who does what is good is from God. Anyone who does what is evil has not seen God.
    3 John 1:11 NIV
     
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    Just a spoonful
    By Pastor Matt Ewart

    You know those big spoons that are in your kitchen silverware drawer? I’m not talking about the soup spoons. I’m talking about the BIG serving spoons. On a few occasions, I’ve had to use the big spoon to eat cereal because all the other spoons were dirty. With the big spoon you can’t help but deliver generous amounts of food to your mouth.

    What size spoon do you use to deliver forgiveness to other people? Peter thought he was being generous when he said this to Jesus: “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?” (Matthew 18:21).

    He grabbed the BIG spoon right away. Seven is a pretty generous number . . . “Jesus answered, ‘I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times’” (Matthew 18:22). . . . Or not.

    We tend to think that setting a high limit on the forgiveness we dish out is the right thing to do. We think of forgiveness in terms of the big spoon. But we shouldn’t.

    God set no limit on the forgiveness he gives to us. He doesn’t administer grace with a spoon, but with a shovel. Every day you need loads of grace and forgiveness from God.

    Someone in your life needs more forgiveness from you than can fit on a spoon. You know because you’ve tried. So forget about the spoon. Break out the shovel and forgive them just as God forgave you