That stinks. I've had family members like that. My uncle wouldn't hire me to roof the old homestead in Hamden years back. At least you asked. Worst thing they could say is no or in this case a polite no.
Hold the presses,,,,,,she called me back and I can take whatever I want,,,,well she wants it all gone, cleaned up, I can do that. She said there’s more to come on the other road that borders the old farm. Both nice straightaways where there’s no excuse for getting hit by speeders