In loving memory of Kenis D. Keathley 6/4/81 - 3/27/22 Loving father, husband, brother, friend and firewood hoarder Rest in peace, Dexterday

Grievances Thread...

Discussion in 'Everything Else (off topic)' started by Chvymn99, Jan 12, 2024.

  1. theburtman

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    I'm sorry for your loss. I'm sure he had a great life with you.
     
  2. eatonpcat

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    Sorry for your loss Brad!
     
  3. Woodwidow

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    A little late reading this buZZsaw BRAD Having just gone through a pet loss of our own makes one realize how much they become part of the family. Keep the good memories near to your heart.
     
  4. Canadian border VT

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    Aunt Margaret passed day before thanksgiving; not really sad due to quality of life she had. Dementia and didn’t recognize her own children.

    I guess I am grieving stage of life where more family GTG are for funerals than weddings or baby showers
     
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  5. Backwoods Savage

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    That is always such a shame when demtia sets in. They seem to become a different person.

    I also agree about family GTG. In my case there are only a couple cousins that are older than I. I guess this means we are now the older generations.
     
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  6. Burnin Since 1991

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    Sorry for your loss. MIL passed a year ago and her sister (aunt) has had dementia for about 10 years. My older sister also has dementia. We're all taking care of each other.
     
  7. bogieb

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    It was a blessing when my Dad passed at the beginning of the year. He had full blown Alzheimer's and was a vegetable for the last several months. At that point, he didn't even know how to swallow food that was spoon fed to him. I grieved that the once very smart man was reduced to that state, but could not grieve his passing at all.
     
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  8. T.Jeff Veal

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    Lost a couple friends in the last week...
     
  9. Ward Hoarder

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    Sorry for your loss.
     
  10. buZZsaw BRAD

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  11. JD Guy

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    I’ve been there with my own Father and could not agree more with your sentiments. While a sudden death is certainly not a welcome event, dementia takes your loved ones away just a little bit every single day. It’s heartbreaking.