Cell Phone Parental Controls

wildwest · Aug 6, 2025 at 2:08 PM

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Sorry you are going through this. To the best of my knowledge there is no good way to remove a picture from the internet. The more you try to suppress something the more it spreads. She needs to know how to have a conversation about this picture without creating drama or bringing more attention to it.

I am not saying it is right but with cameras everywhere there is no way to prevent having your picture taken. If this bothers you/her don’t go in public wearing anything you wouldn’t be comfortable wearing to a church event.

Separate topic, sextortion is extremely common in teens. Teach your daughters how to say NO, have healthy productive conversations with them, let them know they can talk to you about anything! Here peer group especially teen boys can/will use this picture to pressure her into giving out more pictures. Teen girls will body shame her for ANYTHING. Personally I think the girls are worse than boys.
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Wow, you totally understand. Great advice, thank you.

DNH said: ↑

f this bothers you/her don’t go in public wearing anything you wouldn’t be comfortable wearing to a church event.
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Of all things this is where I think it came from, a Christian Youth Conference in Colorado. Most the numbers of boys texting her are Colo prefixes, except two from New Hampshire (which happens to be where a boy from that Conference is sweet on her and has a second home in New Hampshire). I'm being sympathetic but also realistic that it's impossible to stop others from taking pictures. Especially because she LOVES swimming.

Now she's irked her Dad and I aren't upset like she is. As The World Turns......

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