This is understandable; you have no control over who you fall in love with. There is nothing wrong with still being in love with her. However, what you have to watch is allowing that love to allow you to be manipulated. I know, I was there. We don't know the future, she may decide that she was foolish and want to continue or it may be over for good. You have to block the love you feel for her from influencing your thinking. I have seen family members raked over the coals by ex wives that took them to the cleaners on child support. She walked out on you; you should have custody of the children and she should pay you child support. It depends on state and area but I know here a judge won't think twice of ordering $500 or $600 a month for child support. Parents don't spend that kind of money on their kids every month and it is outrageous for a judge to order that in child support. The truth is that you are going to be in a fight and it can get ugly. Hopefully your ex won't try to claim you abused your kids; that is used a lot by vindictive women. I watch a lot of YouTube for entertainment and I have seen a lot in similar instances.
FYI, only a few states have community property laws. Yes, you will probably have to seek an attorney. Also, some states have abandonment laws so that even if she is on the deed, she may not be entitled to any of the house. Don't just take an attorney's word, they are like doctors; some of them are worthless. You have the largest library at your fingertips, the internet. Do your own research; you may be surprised at what you learn. The divorce is the easy part, it is the battles for property and custody of the kids that is the hard and nasty part. Which is why you need to not let being in love with her prevent you from fighting.
Hey Frank and Beans. Just a thought. You may someday find yourself going out to eat with 3 grand kids (I just got home). They double dip in your primo salsa Use there fingers in your queso dip. One seems to think she needs to say hello to anyone and everyone within earshot You have much to look forward to. Your youngsters really need your presence! It's been a rocky road here occasionally as well. Sure glad I have the opportunity to laugh with the kids now! Forge ahead and best of luck.
Yep That's the one. I can relate too, my wife was divorced long before we got together and said the types of things as yours when we hosted the classes.
