So I mentioned this on a thread and I didn't want to hijack that thread again. This is an update for interested individuals (schlot, Eric VW). He informed me yesterday that he is only interested in open relationships. (I will mention that when I met him he went on and on about how faithful he was to his girlfriends) Yeah. So it ended as quickly as it started.
Well...that doesn't make much sense. At least you found out sooner than later. Glad you placed his rear end on the curb...you deserve a man's full attention!
According to him, only secure women are interested in open relationships. Lol. I told him he is only looking for an excuse to cheat.
"open relationship" that is a contradiction in itself. If you just want to come and go at will that is not a relationship that is a casual aquaintance. A relationship takes a commitment, then a true marriage takes a covenant.
That's too bad. Open relationship? Really people? You'll find someone that only wants to spend time with you soon enough.
Sounds like he needs to grow up, and grow a pair. Man up! It's actually easier when you find someone that has your back without even having to ask.
Actually, if he was a one night stander (lol), then it wouldn't bother me so much. But to say, "I want to be committed to you UNTIL I see a hot girl at the bar and you can't blame me for what happens...", that doesn't work for me.
I don't know what he is thinking or what world he is in. I know country girls that would take a bat to his truck. Lol.