Steve , I have been lurking on this forum for a while but when I read your post I had to join so that I could respond. I signed up right away but for some reason that first one did not go through. Anyway I signed up again and now I am able to respond to your post. I am sorry it has taken so long. I would love to second all the positive encouragement that has been offered. I would also love to send you to The Weekend to Remember by Family Life. It is a weekend marriage conference that they have all over the United States. My wife and myself volunteer on the local team for the one in Charlotte NC that is actually happening this weekend. It truly changed my life. We would pay for your conference but you would have to handle your travel and lodging. Google Weekend to Remember and look at the website. If it something you and your wife feel like you would like to do just let me know and we will help make it happen. My family is praying for yours and no matter what keep moving forward.