In loving memory of Kenis D. Keathley 6/4/81 - 3/27/22 Loving father, husband, brother, friend and firewood hoarder Rest in peace, Dexterday

Reflections on our time here

Discussion in 'Everything Else (off topic)' started by justdraftn, Aug 27, 2018.

  1. justdraftn

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    My neighbor of the past 4yrs is loosing her battle to cancer.
    She came back home 2wks ago w/hospice care. Mostly her husband
    of 33yrs. It has been an on going battle for the past 5ys. She beat it back
    for a 3yrs. Now, there is no more medicine and mortal man can do.

    Yesterday was her birthday.....so, she had a birthday party.
    She had Jeff unhook all the tubes and she was confined to
    a recliner in the front yard. She was as radiant as always. She greeted 200 of her
    closest friends and family w/a smile and encouragement for whatever is going
    on in their lives. Her cake said Celebration of Life. ...and it was.

    There will be no funeral. She wants everyone to remember her
    as she was yesterday. She told my wife to listen for her in the wind chimes.
    It was a surrealistic experience.
     
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  2. Chaz

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    Very touching, thanks for sharing.
     
  3. Midwinter

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    What a graceful way to say goodbye.
     
  4. papadave

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    One can only hope for that type of courage and fortitude when it's time to say goodbye.
     
  5. Canadian border VT

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    Touching and admirable!
     
  6. justdraftn

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    Amen.
     
  7. JWinIndiana

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    Sounds like a brave person. I would hope I could handle it with that much class. Sorry to hear of her losing battle.
     
  8. ReelFaster

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    That is extremely touching and an extremely courageous way to say goodbye.
     
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    Awesome story, she sounds like a great lady!!
     
  10. Backwoods Savage

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    That was a class act by that lady. May God gladly accept her in Heaven.

    And yes, I pray for the courage to face the end as she has.
     
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    My thoughts exactly.

    A very dignified life and death.
     
  12. MikeyB

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    X2 brother.
     
  13. Monster80

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    Thanks for sharing this. We all need to check our perspective on life daily.
     
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  15. Scotty Overkill

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    That's a wonderful post, justdraftn.

    Sad, but wonderful at the same time. Sounds like a dignified woman, I can only hope to have that kind of courage and peace when my time comes.

    She's already earned her ticket to Heaven, if you ask me. Prayers to her and her family.....