In loving memory of Kenis D. Keathley 6/4/81 - 3/27/22 Loving father, husband, brother, friend and firewood hoarder Rest in peace, Dexterday

The Way It Was.....................

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  1. rottiman

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    would love to re-live just one or two weeks back in the 50's.




    A POEM THAT WAS US


    A little house with three bedrooms,
    One bathroom and one car on the street
    A mower that you had to push
    To make the grass look neat.


    In the kitchen on the wall
    We only had one phone,
    And no need for recording things,
    Someone was always home.


    We only had a living room
    Where we would congregate,
    Unless it was at mealtime
    In the kitchen where we ate.


    We had no need for family rooms
    Or extra rooms to dine.
    When meeting as a family
    Those two rooms would work out fine.


    We only had one TV set
    And channels maybe two,
    But always there was one of them
    With something worth the view


    For snacks we had potato chips
    That tasted like a chip.
    And if you wanted flavor
    There was Lipton's onion dip.


    Store-bought snacks were rare because
    My mother liked to cook
    And nothing can compare to snacks
    In Betty Crocker's book


    Weekends were for family trips
    Or staying home to play
    We all did things together -
    Even go to church to pray.


    When we did our weekend trips
    Depending on the weather,
    No one stayed at home because
    We liked to be together


    Sometimes we would separate
    To do things on our own,
    But we knew where the others were
    Without our own cell phone


    Then there were the movies
    With your favorite movie star,
    And nothing can compare
    To watching movies in your car


    Then there were the picnics
    at the peak of summer season,
    Pack a lunch and find some trees
    And never need a reason.


    Get a baseball game together
    With all the friends you know,
    Have real action playing ball -
    And no game video.


    Remember when the doctor
    Used to be the family friend,
    And didn't need insurance
    Or a lawyer to defend


    The way that he took care of you
    Or what he had to do,
    Because he took an oath and strived
    To do the best for you


    Remember going to the store
    And shopping casually,
    And when you went to pay for it
    You used your own money?


    Nothing that you had to swipe
    Or punch in some amount,
    And remember when the cashier person
    Had to really count?


    The milkman used to go
    From door to door,
    And it was just a few cents more
    Than going to the store.


    There was a time when mailed letters
    Came right to your door,
    Without a lot of junk mail ads
    Sent out by every store .


    The mailman knew each house by name
    And knew where it was sent;
    There were not loads of mail addressed
    To "present occupant"


    There was a time when just one glance
    Was all that it would take,
    And you would know the kind of car,
    The model and the make


    They didn't look like turtles
    Trying to squeeze out every mile;
    They were streamlined, white walls, fins
    And really had some style


    One time the music that you played
    Whenever you would jive,
    Was from a vinyl, big-holed record
    Called a forty-five


    The record player had a post
    To keep them all in line
    And then the records would drop down
    And play one at a time.


    Oh sure, we had our problems then,
    Just like we do today
    And always we were striving,
    Trying for a better way.


    Oh, the simple life we lived
    Still seems like so much fun,
    How can you explain a game,
    Just kick the can and run?


    And why would boys put baseball cards
    Between bicycle spokes
    And for a nickel, red machines
    Had little bottled Cokes?


    This life seemed so much easier
    Slower in some ways
    I love the new technology
    But I sure do miss those days.


    So time moves on and so do we
    And nothing stays the same,
    But I sure love to reminisce
    And walk down memory lane.


    With all today's technology
    We grant that it's a plus!
    But it's fun to look way back and say,
    HEY LOOK, GUYS, THAT WAS US!
     
  2. MikeyB

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    So true
     
  3. justdraftn

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    That is exactly how I grew up.
    One of my favorites: Saturday, long after lunch was over, Mom would
    hard boil some eggs. I immediately knew what was up.
    She would make some egg salad sandwiches and brew a pot of tea.
    Soon, my Dad would announce that we were going to the movies....the drive in movies.
    Playing on the swings and monkey bars as the sun was going down.
    We never got the stuff from the snack bar because we were having those
    sandwiches, cheez-it crackers and ice tea, out of a thermos.
    Those were really good times.
     
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    Enjoyed that.
    Remember when only rich people had two cars? And using that (one) phone was a privilege? I had forgotten how we didn't get "junk mail"; now I fill my recycle bin to the top with it!
     
  6. Scotty Overkill

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    Part of the reason our world is the way it is....everyone has it so dammed easy, and in turn they feel ENTITLED to everything. You actually appreciate things when you have to work for something.....

    Good post, rottiman.
     
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    Amen! And hard work keeps people out of trouble.
     
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    Only read through a few stanzas of it. Thats all I needed to know it was a good one!
     
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    Don't cheat yourself--read the whole thing, it is worth it!;)
     
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    :thumbs:
     
  11. Backwoods Savage

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    As someone who grew up in the 40's and 50's, I can easily say there is much truth to it. But perhaps what I remember most is the work we did on the dairy farm and did not feel like slaves. It was just natural and most everyone just pitched in. The females mostly did the housework but some helped with chores and at haying time. Yes, we had only 1 car and I don't remember anyone having 2 cars in their family, but that started changing in the late 50's and the 60's.

    I'm reminded of many things. After typing the above, I remembered lawn mowers. Ours did not have a motor and there were no riders when I grew up. If memory hits me, I think it was mainly in the 70's when riding mowers came into being. Now the big push is the zero turn riders. But just think if the dollar difference in keeping a lawn in the 50's vs today!
     
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    We had to reel mowers. One was a large one, and the other smaller, as I and my brother could not push the big one, it was too heavy. That smaller one became mine when I got married, and I used it for many years, until we moved to a place that had gum trees with all those "picker" balls, and we decided to get a gas mower. Nowadays I use a self-propelled along with a riding mower!
     
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    Sue, we still have one of the old push reel mowers!
     
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    Yup. Count me in there, too. I just don't use it!
     
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    Yeah, but that’s ‘cause you guys never clean out the barn...:rofl: :lol:
     
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    I will collect (hoard) stuff just because it's old and in good shape. And, apparently, so does 99 lbs! (Well, so far anyway!)
     
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    Back spasms must be over according to the above statement.....................:rofl: :lol::thumbs:
     
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    :rofl: :lol:
     
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    I was a kid through the seventies and early eighties and can relate to a lot of that “stuff”. We were very fortunate to have the parents, relatives, and neighbors we had! If I could choose what era I would want my kids to grow up in, then or now, I have to admit it would be a tough decision. As Stinny woild probably say, both are gooder.:)
     
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    Lord help us if our wives do it for us. :bug: :hair: I not so fondly remember the first time we moved after we'd gotten married (a long, long time ago). I came home from work one day and my wife was so proud that she had cleaned out the garage so it would be done before the movers came. Oh no!!! I could not believe what all was missing that should not be missing, including my old license plate collection. OMG. At that time we had a township dump so away I went to the dump. Nothing doing. Someone had already picked through my wife's "trash" and all the good stuff was gone... This did cause some very serious discussion that very evening.
     
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