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Reverse Mortgage, *Please read before considering*!

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  1. stuckinthemuck

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    Got both! and another bank "ready" to pay it off, They won't even talk to the other bank!
     
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    I'm not a banker, I never played one on TV, and I did not stay at a Holiday Inn Express last night. With that said..........

    Banks have been under-capitalized for many years. Many wouldn't even exist today if it wasn't for the grace of the Feds. Your house is $150,000 on their balance sheet. They can make loans against that. If you give them $60,000, they just lost $90,000. It may not seem like much when you're talking about hundreds of millions in assets but since they hold countless numbers of mortgages, having hundreds or thousands of people trying to do what you're doing is going to create a serious problem for that balance sheet. They are not going to let that go without a fight.
     
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    They thought they were helping their son, but they were only enabling. You'll never be able to help your BIL, but you can get the house back.
     
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    So, you're pizzed because you want to pay $65,000 for a $150,000 house, and the big bad bank doesn't want to play along? Granted, Wells Fargo is the scum of the earth and I'm not defending them in the least, but that's how business works, they took a chance and now they want some return on their investment. You knew how reverse mortgages work, you never should have let them get one in the first place. Maybe you should have offered to buy the house.
     
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    He didn't "let them get one". Read the thread before you jump to conclusions.
     
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    Dave posted that there is also a six month window to buy the property back in the contract.

    They are stonewalling. I'm sure they will pork a bunch of fees on there, plus the additional interest as this drags on as he mentioned earlier.
     
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    Dave thank you for this post , a real eye opener , sorry for your troubles.
     
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    Not the point Bgoathill, :rolleyes: did you ever watch the "commercials"?! As it is, were going to pay over $9000.00 in fees! Don't you think thats enough ??? Also, read the above, as I stated, we didn't even know they did it until way after the fact! And to answer your question if I'm Pi$$ED, you dam right!!! And rightfully so. They will get their money, but now their trying to capitialize even more by dragging it out as far as they can, What kind of business is that?..... $#!TTY business!!!
     
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    Nor do we want to!!! :headbang: I hope the BA$T@RD rots in jail after what he's done. There is more to this story with him like stealing and pawning jewlery of his Mothers, etc.... Just think of the things any "drunk or druggie" would do to get high!
     
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    Dave you and your wife have been dealt a real Chiity hand , F'N bank a holes and compound that with a F'up family member :hair::hair::hair: I feel for you both Bro . It takes courage to put this out here .
     
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    Thanks Will, but it seems most families have a "misfit", (thats the kindest way I can put it)... We will get through it, I did make a call this morning to a military lawyer friend and he told me they absolutley cannot not yank it out from underneath of us.

    The military cannot represent us because it's a civil matter "but" they can put some heat on them in other directions, he didn't elaborate.:confused: This alone makes me want to take every dollar I have completely out of the banks! When I retire, I will have one checking account, I'm cleaning out everything into "liquid", I believe the depression era folks had the right idea of pack ratting money. I have a couple savings that are gonna vanish, "I'll go gamble them away" :whistle:;).... Money, what money??? :whistle:
     
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    Don't forget to see if your rights under SCRA apply. That may limit how much they are allowed to gouge you with interest and fees.
     
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    I just saw Tom Sellek on a commercial selling reverse mortgages this morning. He needs to stick to his avocado farm and not prey on the elderly because he was so famous during their younger years. :picard: Your in my prayers Dave to get through an even harder time after losing a loved one. Good luck buddy!
     
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    Yes we do , just thankful that my younger bro finally hit bottom 20 years ago got the help he needed , clean and sober ever since :thumbs:
     
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    Thanks, we did speak about that!!!
     
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    Thanks WS! I had a feeling this was gonna turn into a S#!T Storm! And it did... :headbang::headbang::headbang::mad: So, you see what has to happen first before the "big" move...:picard:
     
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    I sure do, but hopefully in the end, through all this BS, you'll be along shortly thereafter. God's country!