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Discussion in 'Everything Else (off topic)' started by Daryl, Aug 9, 2015.

  1. Daryl

    Daryl

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    So I mentioned this on a thread and I didn't want to hijack that thread again. This is an update for interested individuals (schlot, Eric VW).

    He informed me yesterday that he is only interested in open relationships. (I will mention that when I met him he went on and on about how faithful he was to his girlfriends) Yeah. So it ended as quickly as it started.
     
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    Congrats to you!!


    And this for that jerk :heidi:
     
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  3. Daryl

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    The only thing that bothers me is I feel used as someone to kill time with. That is it.
     
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  4. papadave

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    Open relationship, yet faithful.
    Riiiiight.
    And, I'm the king of Whoville.
     
  5. schlot

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    Well...that doesn't make much sense. At least you found out sooner than later. :) Glad you placed his rear end on the curb...you deserve a man's full attention!
     
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  6. Daryl

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    According to him, only secure women are interested in open relationships. Lol. I told him he is only looking for an excuse to cheat.
     
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    Fuk him (excuse the language)...Next!!
     
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  8. papadave

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    It's a perspective thing.
    Yours is different than his. Good riddance.
     
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    "open relationship" that is a contradiction in itself. If you just want to come and go at will that is not a relationship that is a casual aquaintance. A relationship takes a commitment, then a true marriage takes a covenant.
     
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    That's too bad. Open relationship? Really people?

    You'll find someone that only wants to spend time with you soon enough.
     
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    Sounds like he needs to grow up, and grow a pair.

    Man up! It's actually easier when you find someone that has your back without even having to ask.
     
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    X 2 what an azz hole .
     
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    You got that right:yes: , D is good people :thumbs:
     
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    He wants his cake and eat it too. It doesn't work that way.
     
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    Just thought I would keep Cupid updated on my situation. (inside joke) :rofl: :lol:
     
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    Open relationship = serial one-night stands. You done good. He loses.

    Greg
     
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  18. Daryl

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    Actually, if he was a one night stander (lol), then it wouldn't bother me so much. But to say, "I want to be committed to you UNTIL I see a hot girl at the bar and you can't blame me for what happens...", that doesn't work for me.
     
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    That's not committed.
     
  20. Daryl

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    I don't know what he is thinking or what world he is in. I know country girls that would take a bat to his truck. Lol.