1. Date me for 4.5 years 2. Move in With me 3. Let yourself go to h3ll once moved in (mentally and physically) 4. Move out and break up without so much as a discussion about why. 5. Leave a bunch of your junk in my house when you move out after I told you not to leave anything. 6. Periodically text me drunk jibberish at 3am or later. Literally jibberish. No real words, just letters etc. 7. 10 months later, text me at 3am and want to "talk sometime" (read:not drunk jibberish) So yeah, number 7 happened to me tonight. Methinks the grass ain't so green on the other side I went 10 months without saying a word to her and im happier for it. Why the h3ll would I go back to that mess? Ok, seriously. Should I even respond tomorrow or keep on ignoring the messages (drunk and serious) Truth be told, we had a ton in common.
Sounds like a throwback. I had a few of them, starting with my ex. Ittook 15 years, but I finally found a keeper! Life is good!
did she sleep on the dog's bed occasionally also?....... Seriously though. No. She had her chance. Move on...and don't look back. If she moved out once she'll move out again.
As TurboDiesel said, "she moved out once, she'll do it again!" Cut your losses and move on. Anything she left behind, either toss it or sell it. The phone calls, block them. And girls, the same applies if a man leaves you! What's that saying, Burn me once, shame on you! Burn me twice, shame on me! There are plenty of fish in the sea, so keep fishing until you find the prize fish (your match)
You're better off without her. Someone who can walk away in an instant, obviously isn't the one you want to be with. If you take her back, it's not a matter of if, but when she'll leave again. Don't think I;m looking down my nose at you, some of us have been there and went back, or let the other person back, and nothing good comes of it, just more time wasted. There's someone out there who's your match. Let them find you.
She likely hit some sort of low point in her life and needs some sort of stability back (you) but chances are she'd do it again. If you are happier now, it's her loss. Better fish in the sea like said.
